The Perfect Wife

Every guy looks for a perfect woman to be his life partner. He would have a list of criteria of a perfect women (wife). His family and friends would help him to find one too.

But, what he fails to do was to look at himself. What deserves him a perfect woman or girl?

Guys failed to list down their weaknesses that need to be addressed first before getting married. Failure to look at one's weaknesses is a weakness itself.

This is called the 'male ego'. This same ego prevents guys from admitting their weaknesses or wrongdoings. Instead, they look at their partners' imperfectness.

A perfect wife is for a perfect husband.

Ask yourself, "Am I a perfect guy?"

Be a perfect guy first and you'll be rewarded by GOD with a perfect wife.      

Pay Day

Dear Husbands,
Pay day is a very important day in your life, other than your wife's birthday.

On that day (the pay day), make sure you buy/do these for your wife:
1. Buy a small gift. It can be anything as long that is in the range of your wife's interest.
2. Bring her out for dinner. Let her decide the venue and menu.
3. Lastly, end the day with a kiss & say "thank you". Thank for her patience, support and cooperation.

    (p/s: If you could transfer your salary and all savings into her bank account would be better)(optional).

The above tips are for those who are looking for 'heavenly-happiness' at home.

Husband's Duty on Sundays & Rest Days

Sundays and rest days are not tv days. Utilize these days to be with your wife and children.
Do house chores. This would be the most wonderful gift you can give to your wife on your Sundays.

Go marketing with the whole family. It can be to the wet market or any hypermarkets.
Once there, follow your wife to which ever section she goes. Give your opinions only when asked.
Your kids should be following too. I'll tell the reasons later.

Usually the kids would love to push the trolley. So let it be. You hold your wife's hand.
She'll feel your love. I can guarantee that the next 6 days, till your next Sunday, you will get 5 star treatments from her.

Why kids are included in this activity?
1. Kids learn from their parents.
2. The boys will learn from young that there's no such thing as women's chore and men's chore.

By doing this, our next generations will be blessed with happy families. There would be no women battering.

Join my journey towards a better family life.

Your Partner is Your Life Direction

Before getting married, everyone of us is the king/queen of our lifes. We set our own life directions.
After getting married, most of us 'surrender' this option to our spouses. Why? Its just natural. Especially the guys.

We let our wives (in most cases) to decide our future. From purchasing of simple households to major investments.
This also happens to wives (sometimes & very rare).

Lets look back for a moment. How are we now? Happy? Living the life we wanted? Accomplished life goals? Looking forward for another decade of exciting life together?
Your answers are your happiness index.

My interviews with many married couples indicates unhappiness over 'control of life' issues.
Both do not wish to be controlled. Usually the guys give in.

My suggestion are:
1. From day one (first date) be sincere about yourself. Talk about likes and dislikes.
2. Always remind your partner of our dreams and future plannings.
3. Marriage is not the end of dreams and achievements.